For many residents of Maryland, it is often wondered what one can do to help the divorce proceedings proceed without set backs. When someone wants to get divorced, it is likely that they want it done and over with as soon as possible. Preparing for a divorce settlement meeting proves to be one of the most controversial aspects of divorce, other than child custody issues, but there are some ways couples are going about settlement meetings to get a fair outcome without delay.
When going into the divorce settlement meeting, it is a good idea to always be prepared to negotiate. One should take into consideration of the other spouse's side to the story, regarding assets or finances. Try to remember that it is not realistic, or fair, for a settlement to end with only one spouse happy. Compromising can make the process go smoother.
Although there can be many feelings of bitterness and even anger surrounding a divorce, keeping emotions out of a settlement meeting can be beneficial for all parties involved. Opinions are needed to successfully negotiate a settlement, but negative emotions are not. If possible, avoid accusatory statements during the negotiation. These harsh words in a settlement can waste time, prolonging the process.
The goal of a settlement is to get through the fine details on one's own terms. Legalities can be confusing at some point, so it is beneficial to be properly educated on the subject, or to have someone on your side who is. Individuals should strive to be as involved as they can in the process, so be sure to ask plenty of questions. If a break is needed for clarification, always ask for it. After all, a divorce and the negotiating can have long-lasting consequences and being involved will greatly improve feeling successful afterward.
Many Maryland divorce settlement meetings can be negotiated in one session, however more complex situations may warrant more. Each settlement meeting is as important as the one before it. Being involved, educated, opinionated and fair in a divorce settlement can prove to be the best way to get through the divorce settlement meeting with little conflict.
Source: Huffington Post, Divorce Confidential: How to Prepare for a Settlement Meeting, Caroline Choi, Oct. 31, 2013